Matt was a 32-year-old man who is in recovery for pornography addiction.  He had four months of good sobriety using all the tools he’d been given.  Now it was time to investigate the root cause(s) of his addiction.  To do this, we used the O.A.T. model of addiction.  Developed by British therapist Paula Hall (2019), […]

When Lou was confronted about his use of Internet pornography, his excuse was that he was tired of the “vanilla” sex he was having with his wife, Roberta. He claimed he needed more excitement in the bedroom. This left Roberta feeling both angry and sad. She felt as if Lou was blaming her for his […]

Ryan and Joanna came to my office feeling really hurt and discouraged. Finding out about Ryan’s pornography addiction left Joanna cycling through many emotions, but she mainly felt angry and alone. The betrayal was almost too much for her to handle.  Knowing how deeply he hurt his wife, Ryan was committed to doing whatever it […]